How to influence without saying a word


Welcome to ALIGNED

The Newsletter for Living a Life of Abundant Good
with Spiritual Life Coach Joselito Laudencia

June 10, 2025 edition

Dear Reader,

Have you ever been in a room and instantly felt the energy shift?

Maybe someone entered who brought calm. Or tension. Or inspiration.

You couldn't quite explain it—but you could feel it.

That’s the power of presence.

That’s the unspoken language of energy.

And it’s one of the most overlooked aspects of leadership and connection.

Ready to find out what authenticity without words can look like? Then keep on reading.

Now let's get ALIGNED...


Inspirational Quote

"Trained thought is more powerful than untrained thought."
- Ernest Holmes

The Story and The Spiritual Lesson

One of my clients once told me how much he dreaded going into work.

His workplace felt toxic. His boss didn’t appreciate him. He felt invisible, undervalued, and unseen.

During one of our sessions, I offered him a possibility:

“In any relationship,” I said, “you don’t need both people to change. One person—you—can shift the entire dynamic.”

I invited him to explore what might happen if he stopped waiting for other people to change, and instead showed up differently himself—more grounded, more present, more aligned with his own worth.

He took that to heart.

The next morning, he walked into work with a quiet intention:

“Today, I’m going to carry myself with confidence. I’m going to be present. I know my value.”

That day, people in the office started talking to him. His boss complimented him. The energy felt lighter.

No one else had changed—but he had.

His presence did the heavy lifting.

You don’t need to “perform” to be magnetic.

You don’t have to say the perfect thing.

And you don’t even need to be the most qualified person in the room.

Your energy does the talking. It enters the room before you do. And it lingers long after you leave.

The invitation is simple: Stop waiting for the outer world to shift.

Align your inner world first.

Ask yourself: What are people experiencing in your presence?

Are you bringing calm? Clarity? Joy? Or something else entirely?

The simple truth is this:

Your presence is your impact.

Your Call to Action

For your coaching assignment for this week, take a moment to reflect:

What energy do I want to radiate today?

You can try this simple practice:

  • Place a hand over your heart.
  • Take three slow breaths.
  • And silently affirm: “My presence is enough.”

Then go about your day and notice: What shifts when you shift?

You see, your words matter—but your energy tells the real story.

And the most powerful presence begins with alignment.

Abundant Blessings and Namaste.


Abundant Good News and Notes

Do you live in Los Angeles? Want to attend a live in-person workshop?: Next month, I'll be leading an in-person workshop in downtown Los Angeles on "The 5 Keys to Work-Life Balance." This is sponsored by the Los Angeles Athletic Club for its members, and I'm allowed to bring a handful of outside guests. This is happening on Thursday, July 17, 2025, from 7pm to 8:30pm. If you're interested, reply to this email to let me know. Then, I'll compile a list of everyone who's interested, and determine whether I can bring everyone who wants to go.

One-on-One Spiritual Life Coaching: I have a couple spots that's recently opened for Spiritual Life Coaching. If you are ready to explore your next chapter and take your life to its next expression of joy and fulfillment, I encourage you to consider coaching with me. You can learn more about my spiritual life coaching services by clicking here.


Thanks for reading ALIGNED!

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Abundant Blessings,
Joselito Laudencia

Spiritual Life Coach, Teacher, Speaker
Author, The Creative Impulse: Answering the Highest Calling of Your Heart
www.abundantgood.com


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